By Claire Riley
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August 4, 2023
In 2013 my uncle Mark passed away. His death shook my family to its very core, rocketing us all into various forms of grief. My younger brother (also a Mark) and I were unable to attend the funeral; unfortunately living thousands of miles away meant it wasn’t possible for all of us to make the long trip to the UK. With businesses to run and a younger sibling to care for Mark and I remained here to hold the fort, so my parents could say their final goodbyes. We both felt we never got to have that sense of closure that is so important when someone passes. Later that year inspired by music my uncle had made me listen to on repeat the last time I’d seen him, I decided to choreograph a dance. A tribute dance to my uncle that was to be performed by myself and my students in the end of year performance. This was to be my closure, my own goodbye to him expressed in the best way possible for me. I could go on and on about what that dance meant to me, how proud I am of all the students that got up there with me, how difficult and at times heartbreaking it was. But one of the things that really stood out for me looking back, is the absolutely incredible support I felt on stage from the audience. I had this powerful feeling of solidarity; that they were WITH me, through every step, every turn and every tear. The Power of Performance Whilst not every performance experience is going to be quite like that one, it does give you an idea of just how powerful an effect the audience can have on you, and vice versa. Each year before every performance, we dancers crowd on stage behind the curtain quietly, nervous and giggly, adrenaline starting to kick in with the feelings of excitement and anticipation. We have a little speech we give our students… “Smile, try not to be too nervous, let’s show the audience the amazing show we’ve put together. Be the best dancer you can be tonight. These are our families and friends who have come to watch and support us. We owe it to them to do our very best!! Let’s make them proud!! And don’t forget to enjoy the moment… it will be over before you know it.” As dancers we can often underestimate how moving our performance may be to others. We dance because WE love it; the music, the choreography, the costumes. Watching the world disappear as we lose ourselves in the movement. But we forget it can also make the audience leave their own world and enter ours for a while too. During our choreographic competition this year I watched two of my long-term students perform a duo together – I should say TRIED to watch, because I cried through the entire thing. The absolute pride I had for these girls was so overwhelming. I felt honoured to have taught them for so long, to know the beautiful young women they were growing into, amazed at the effort they put into their piece and the passion they so obviously had for dance. I think they gave so much of themselves in that performance that in turn we, the audience, gave something of ourselves back to them. There was stillness in the room as they danced, a stillness that only comes with an audience who are entirely entranced but also completely respectful to the performers. Audience Etiquette Sometimes as audience members we don’t always understand or appreciate the complexities of putting a performance together. It’s a lot of hard work, sweat and tears by not only the people on stage but the ones behind it too; fixing hair, pinning accessories, helping with costumes, ferrying 3-year olds from dressing rooms to stage, pulling curtains, cueing lights, making sure music starts on time and doesn’t cut off too early! Yes, we the audience may have come to watch one person in particular. But that person is part of a class and a big team. A big “dance family” as we like to call it at Dance Division. Without that big team, without that family… the performance doesn’t happen. For instance Rebecca’s Dad might not know a thing about contemporary dance, or care for it much, but when his 5 year old ballerina twirls on stage his heart melts. She is all that matters in that moment. But it’s important that he appreciates that the little jazz girls and big hip hop girls and medium-sized contemporary girls also have daddies in the audience too. And in their performances, they are just as important to their special people as his little girl is to him. We might have a favourite dance style we like to watch, or we might only be there for our own child or our friend, but ALL of the students have worked hard to create magic on stage and it’s important to give all the performers the respect and attention they deserve. Performance is a two way street. Our dancers want to impress you, they want to make you sit up in your chair and applaud loudly. If you can give back support and attentiveness, the experience for performers and audience members alike becomes infinitely more special.